Posts Tagged ‘threesomes’

And then there were three …

I never miss an opportunity to bring two of my favourite topics together (or two of my favourite friends, for that matter!), so let’s talk safer sex and threesomes. I love the relaxed feeling that comes with having the bases covered – and the potential for spontaneity and passion is always helped along when everyone knows which way is up (I don’t need to tell you which way is down, I believe in you ;))

There are a few extra considerations when there are a few extra hands (and other things besides) involved:

– Your hands may want to wander and explore. That’s great. The main thing to be mindful of is where they’ve been and where they’re going next! Any fingers that have been inside one person shouldn’t go inside a different person unless they’ve been washed or covered with a condom (you can also try giving each person their very own dedicated hand, if you’re feeling decadent.)
– People’s insides have a very unique biome (we’re getting nerdy here, but bear with me!) and mixing the two up can mean some very unsexy discomfort later. We want to be basking in the ultra-hot memories of the menage-a-trois in the days afterwards, not heading to the nurse’s office, so a little thoughtfulness will go a very long way.
– You probably already know that it’s super important not to have any cross-over between fingers that have been used for anal play and fingers that are going into other areas, but it bears repeating! The same rules as above apply.
– You might well find yourself experiencing the delight that is having sex with one lady and then another in quick succession. Lucky thing. In that case, there are two options for safe sex. One is to change the condom when it’s the other person’s turn to have fun. The other is for both ladies to use ‘femidoms’ instead, which will ensure that everyone’s protected without having to do any quick-fire changes in the middle of the action. Femidoms, for the uninitiated, are safe, latex-free, and – just like condoms -easy to use with a little bit of practice.
– Toys, just like fingers and cocks, should have a new condom on them before they go inside a different person.

Safe, sexy and seriously good fun. Enjoy!

Couples

Lately, I have accidentally (but most fortuitously) become popular with couples looking to branch out and enjoy new experiences. I could try and explain how happy this has made me, but it would be awfully close to bragging, and I’m not sure I could do it justice anyway. Suffice to say, if you are a lovely couple and you would like to engage a lady for a threesome, I’m batting my eyelashes at you right now.

Chair

Changes!

Times, they are a-changin’.

I am now a part-time lady of negotiable affections!

[Pause for effect]

I know, I know. There-there.

The results are double edged. On the one hand, I’m going to have to charge a bit more for one-hour appointments, on the other, I’m going to be having less sex and my lucky client-of-the-day will probably be rugby-tackled to the ground by a horny Irishwoman the moment the door closes. However, the majority of you will probably not be affected much by the changes because you either:

1. Have seen me two or more times, in which case I must like you (I let you come back, didn’t I?). Since I enjoy your company, my rate will remain the same.

or

2. You like to stay for longer than an hour, in which case the increase is fairly nominal. I much prefer longer bookings, and I’m glad that most of the lovely people who come to see me do too.

I’ve also made some changes here and there on the site (happy hunting!) and there are lots of new photos coming up soon, promise. Till then, here’s one of me unceremoniously straddling Elsie:

Quelle Excitation! Duos!

I like to think I’m all right at a few different aspects of my job, but I definitely have a few specialities which stand above the rest.

One is that I love newbies and nervous guys, putting them through their paces and proving to them that sex is really very easy and fun. Another is that I appreciate the value of some clever talk before and after (and sometimes during!) the action. I’ve never truly been attracted to anyone who didn’t stimulate me intellectually, and my latest discovery is that I’m not alone in that. Most of my favourite appointments fall into these two camps: either involving teaching and exploring sex with someone seeking a safe-space for sexual development, or enjoying an intimate and connected time with someone looking for an uninhibited and genuine GFE. But lately a third type of appointment is coming up in the inside lane: duos, also known as a ‘two-girl’, a threesome, or a moresome, if you can tempt a few more participants into the bed!

Group sex is a long-standing kink of mine, so it’s unsurprising that I do cartwheels whenever a threesome is suggested (that’s right, literal cartwheels … no, I won’t demonstrate). But it can be tricky to find ladies to work with. Firstly, one wants to be sure that the lady is really and truly into girlsex and happy to play on that count. Next, you have to know that you get along with her, and that you mesh well (no pun intended) in a sexual setting. I’ve had the good fortune to find all of this and more whilst working with the lovely Violet Rose. When she’s in London we’re very much available for threesome antics (I’d strongly advise three Weetabix on the morning of your booking.) She’s a delight, and if you like me, you’ll love her.

In addition to Violet, I have a lovely friend who’s just decided she’d like to dip her toe into the world of sex work. My suggestion (knowing that she’s bisexual and perhaps an even bigger fan of threesomes than I am) was that she join me some day for a duo. She’s a friendly, beautiful American redhead, brand-spanking (ehehe) new to the business and full of enthusiasm. I’ll try and get some pictures of her so you can all have a gawp, but in the meantime, rest assured that’s she’s absurdly attractive. She and I will be available for incalls together during the day with a bit of advance notice (I advise four Weetabix at least, and maybe some of those glucose sachets you see runners imbibing, just in case.)

Rosalie O'Connor